Don't Make Assumptions



In Ms. Gaga's plan
Goal: Adhere to the agreemenets
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Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want.  Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama.  With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

When we make assumptions it is because we believe we know what others are thinking and feeling.  We believe we know their point of view, their dream.  We forget that our beliefs are just our point of view based on our belief system and personal experiences and have nothing to do with what others think and feel.  

We make the assumption that everybody judges us, abuses us, victimizes us, and blames us the way we do ourselves.  As a result we reject ourselves before others have the chance to reject us.  When we think this way, it becomes difficult to be ourselves in the world.

Take action and be clear to others about what you want or do not want; do not gossip and make assumptions about things others tell you.  Respect other points of view and avoid arguing just to be right.  Respect yourself and be honest with yourself.  Stop expecting the people around you to know what is in your head.



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Lewis C Dsafsf

Assumptions.... gosh... they are just confusing.. they play with my mind. Good to quit them but they seems to be pursueing you all the time

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Lewis C Dsafsf

We are so busy in our daily lives, that we don't even have time to listen what other's have to say. Instead we just assume. When we don't interact we dont take an initiative to understand what is there in other person's heart. Most of the couple quarrel are centred with this issue..

Too many break ups... Sad!!

Cynthia, is the wonder women. She just KNOWS
 

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Lisa Smith 1766978
Help wanted

What is realistic assumption? We're not suppose to depend on assumptions I know, but assumptions are a part of economics and insuarance. I am just getting bit perplexed. Could someone help me to clear this?

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Lisa Smith 1766978

"When the assumptions prove to be wrong it is often far too late to go back and fix the ruined relationship. Sometimes, years may pass before the real reasons for one's actions are communicated and by that time there is usually a sense of regret and guilt that adds more strain on the bond between the two people"..........Read it somewhere. So true it  is.

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Lewis C Dsafsf

My assumptions are always proven to be wrong. :( Nope! nothing serious, just assumed a few small things, but......

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Lisa Smith 1766978

I don't want to exaggerate things with stupid baseless assumptions. It does nothing apart from making me anxious. Took me a lot hard work to not make any vague assumption.

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Lisa Smith 1766978

Thinking less, worrying lesser.Not making assumptions. Smiling more.

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Lewis C Dsafsf

Even if I have assumptions I tend to confirm them..

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info Anonymoususer

I assume people make assumptions about my assuming. this lady laughed. I wanted to punch her

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